It upsets me how female friends upset me.. Ex-colleagues.. I’m never going to talk to JBL again after this.. I felt betrayed, but I’m over it.. ‘coz I know the sadder I seem, it’ll just make her think I really care about her! Our friendship was a mistake, & nothing’ll ever change that. I already quit from Singhiaphin, & am not affliated with them in any way.. Just being myself: You do wrong, I shove the truth in your face & walk off.
Rotting in Bridex Hall 10-12 Sept 13
It upsets me how female friends upset me.. Ex-colleagues.. I’m never going to talk to JBL again after this.. I felt betrayed, but I’m over it.. ‘coz I know the sadder I seem, it’ll just make her think I really care about her! Our friendship was a mistake, & nothing’ll ever change that. I already quit from Singhiaphin, & am not affliated with them in any way.. Just being myself: You do wrong, I shove the truth in your face & walk off.
Taking a break in a new work environment is refreshing.. surely have no more depressing issues like in my previous employment in the automotive parts industry. I chill on Saturday afternoons at the cafe and catch a movie sometimes on Sundays. To be up-to-date by working in an IT environment has been my dream for a very long time, and coupled with a career in human resources, I feel content. My only worry now is that Ah Hen may not want to stay here in Brunei for very long. Right, he has been very sweet and supportive in my life quest, but I will not force him into something he isn’t into. Hopefully, the storms have cleared up for now.
Update!
Nemesis/Rivals: Lily Bong, Djin Lim.
I don’t have much to say but I just want to stress that I feel so glad I stopped working at Singhiaphin. While I can bite my lips and take it lying down with Djin Lim, I can never stand Lily Bong. I tried to get along with her initially, but some people can never understand or respect you. I never meant to gossip or say bad about her behind her back but she kept annoying me, shouting and tossing sarcasm in my face. It all started when I rejected her invitation to party:
1. I’m too old for parties
2. I barely know her
3. I don’t like partying
4. I don’t drink or smoke,or karaoke
5. I’m a vegetarian
6. I don’t want to see Djin Lim’s new gf
7. Main reason: Ahen doesn’t want to go.
(and of course she shout you kanasai ! in my face)
After that, she kept doing strange things to get on my nerves. After I talked to any guy at work, she would go to the guy and chat him up. She also found a time to pour salt on my wounds, this way:
I: Jit, how did your party go?
(Jit tells me)
L: (turns to Jit) Your gf is goddamn sexy! Bring her again next time. (Pauses) If Djin was here, his mouth would water.
And of course I know last sentence was meant for me coz she never talks about Djin Lim & he is (or was) my enemy, only she keeps saying i love him despite everyone knows I already am dating Ahen.
I can’t find inner peace working there, and glad to say, she has stopped going for prayers at the temple. Good riddance, and it is time to forgive.. and forget, as says religion. But I know, despite my short temper, that I should not react strongly to her presence should she come back to the temple. After all legs are hers, and I have no position in the temple (just a junior after so many years). But I don’t want people to think I am jealous of her, or that I care. I just want my inner peace, and release. So I don’t regret that I have to compensate the company with one month’s salary.
A picture speaks a thousand words…… or whatever the phrase. Dumpling from my bosses! Yummy yummy..
Been busy with work & rarely had time to post. Succeeded in persuading my crush, Chai Hen, to get Samsung Grand Duos and if there are no issues, I plan to get that phone for mummy too.
Miss my sisters who are far away from me now & hope to see them soon. I miss my lovable cute niece Eliz who’s in Singapore! Glad she is starting to talk more as of recent FB posts from elder sister Celestial.
My ex visited the shop I work at again today & he is a 360° difference from the guy i knew ten years back. He brought his fiancee with him & I bluffed him my bf is “Uncle Cat”, my senior in the workplace. Surprisingly, he believed & we all had a big laugh about it after work. (We including Unc Cat who I call Koko Cat as I am one of the eldest in the workplace in the Slackers’ Division)
My hair is getting better soon with my usage of Schwarzkoft Hair-Repair shampoo & hair mask. Can’t wait to dye it soon 🙂
Bought new shirts at MissPink at the mall for $10 each!! Looks cute 🙂
Tried going out with a friend from work (from another branch) but somehow it didnt work out.. & I couldnt take it, put him aeroplane & went to find my crush (he happened to be nearby) even though his friends were around.. hope they like me too & dont mind me. At least now I am starting to understand myself!
P.S:
Edited a few of my enemy’s photos for some laughs but not posting them here. Everyone already thinks the time I pranked him with a water bag under a cushion he happened to sit on was funny enough. Well, everyone except Isa.. (& he couldnt sit down for almost 2 hours coz his pants were wet & sagging from the weight)
New opening of KR-OE spare parts shop@Spg 21, Gadong Central! Missed the grand opening due to work, but got photos credit to a Mr. Stanley Hiu who posted online.
Wanted to get a bag for myself as a memento, but too shy to go over. So one of the bosses’ son gave me one and a colleague gave me a helix bag too. (was quite funny)
And the other event of the day was my so-called enemy… He mistook me for the new girl when I was replacing the soap in the gents, and started whistling. He probably thought I was the new girl in our office, who is really cute. Well I turned and saw him, he probably froze for a few seconds on realizing his mistake. (He was on a ladder and couldnt really get a full view) After that, I casually grabbed my spray freshener and sprayed the ceiling a few times while he was still on the ladder. Later I told one of the kids (bosses’ great nephews) about the incident, and the boy sprayed my ‘enemy＇’s butt with the freshener for fun.
photos after work
Long time since I last posted wakaka! So adios to reviving my “oldie old” blog! Enjoying my N7100 and recently did a factory reset due to an issue with graphics resolution. Texts suddenly went blurry.
Today I accidentally crushed my colleague in the groin coz he was trying to be funny with a metal chain and almost put it around my neck. I ducked and hit him hard on the groin with the back of the chair (the part I usually lean on). Poor boy. He said he checked himself in the gents for injuries but I bet he’s joking.
This is the third month I’ve been working in Gadong Central and I get along with all colleagues, minus one dude who got on my “death note” due to his hefty crime – Lying. I don’t talk to him, but I thought it was funny when he sat too hard on my tiny water bag which I planted under a cushion. The impact was too big that the bag burst, resulting in a “water explosion” and pants wet for two hours (due to the material of the pants which is hard to dry off due to its thickness).
I,however enjoy the company of new friends, particularly the kids who I’ve created a new clown in their minds dubbed “Peishan’s enemy” or “the guy with orange hair” etc etc…
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